Introduction
It was supposed to be a fairy tale ending. I met the love of my life, and he happened to be a duke. He proposed to me, and I said yes. But there was one problem. He wanted me to be his adopted daughter in law. I didn’t want that. And here’s why:
What Does It Mean to Be an Adopted Daughter in Law?
Being an adopted daughter in law means that I would be legally adopted by my future father-in-law. This would make me his daughter in the eyes of the law. It’s a common practice among aristocrats, particularly in Europe.
My fiancé’s father is a duke. He’s a powerful man who has a lot of influence in the aristocratic circles. Being his daughter in law would mean that I would be connected to that circle as well.
Why I Don’t Want to Be an Adopted Daughter in Law
There are several reasons why I don’t want to be an adopted daughter in law:
Loss of Identity
Being adopted would mean that I would have to change my last name. I would have to give up my identity and become a part of the duke’s family. I’m proud of who I am, and I don’t want to lose that.
Pressure to Conform
Being a part of the aristocratic circle comes with a lot of expectations. I would have to dress a certain way, behave a certain way, and attend certain events. I’m an independent person, and I don’t want to be told how to live my life.
Limited Freedom
Being a part of the duke’s family would mean that my every move would be watched and scrutinized. I would have to be careful about what I say and do. I don’t want to live my life under a microscope.
Is It Possible to Be Married to a Duke Without Being Adopted?
Yes, it is possible to be married to a duke without being adopted. In fact, there are many examples of women who have married dukes without being adopted. Kate Middleton, for example, is married to Prince William, who is a duke, but she was not adopted by the royal family.
Conclusion
Being a part of the aristocratic circle may seem glamorous, but it comes with a price. I don’t want to give up my identity, my freedom, and my independence to become a part of that circle. I want to marry the man I love and live my life on my own terms. And that’s why I don’t want to be Duke’s adopted daughter in law.
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